Sociopath: A Mean Girls Sequel

Sociopath by Patric Gagne

Published: April 2, 2024 by Simon & Schuster

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Synopsis:

Patric Gagne realized she made others uncomfortable before she started kindergarten. Something about her caused people to react in a way she didn’t understand. She suspected it was because she didn’t feel things the way other kids did. Emotions like fear, guilt, and empathy eluded her. For the most part, she felt nothing. And she didn’t like the way that “nothing” felt.

She did her best to pretend she was like everyone else, but the constant pressure to conform to a society she knew rejected anyone like her was unbearable. So Patric stole. She lied. She was occasionally violent. She became an expert lock-picker and home-invader. All with the goal of replacing the nothingness with…something.

In college, Patric finally confirmed what she’d long suspected. She was a sociopath. But even though it was the very first personality disorder identified—well over 200 years ago—sociopathy had been neglected by mental health professionals for decades. She was told there was no treatment, no hope for a normal life. She found herself haunted by sociopaths in pop culture, madmen and evil villains who are considered monsters. Her future looked grim.

But when Patric reconnects with an old flame, she gets a glimpse of a future beyond her diagnosis. If she’s capable of love, it must mean that she isn’t a monster. With the help of her sweetheart (and some curious characters she meets along the way) she embarks on a mission to prove that the millions of Americans who share her diagnosis aren’t all monsters either.

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Review:

There have been a lot of interesting opinions and theories about this book and its author. It appears that the “university” that gave her a Ph.D merged with another university and may/or may not have been a diploma mill. And it’s not clear if they even had a Ph.D program in the thing she claims to have gotten her degree in. She has no published papers. Even her doctoral thesis isn’t available because, according to her uploading them online wasn’t mandatory at the school. Frankly, I don’t even think it’s clear she was “diagnosed” as a sociopath. First, sociopath isn’t a diagnosis in the DSM. Sociopathy is a colloquial term for antisocial personality disorder, and is considered a less malignant version of psychopathy. Her therapist had her take a test and then said it sounded like she was a sociopath. Technically I guess therapists are considered trained to make diagnoses but that seems a little simple and not remotely the experience of a lot of people who are trying to get a diagnosis for their mental health concerns.

Anyway, moving on from these points I am not going to speculate on whether the author is, or is not, a sociopath. I am certainly not trained or educated to make such a claim either way. Some of the things she describes seem to be evident of symptoms of the disorder but others are not. For someone who claims not to care about how others feel she certainly seems to care about upsetting people throughout the portion of the book I read. She falls in love, she has children that she claims to love. But if you have no feelings about other people and don’t care how they feel, then……how does that happen? I guess this is the problem with telling me on page 1 that you’re an unreliable narrator and a liar. I will never be able to tell if you’re lying to me or not.

This book was just really lame in the end. I got bored with it halfway through and put it down. There’s only so many stories I can listen to about Patric being mean to someone and then whining about being a sociopath and no one understands her. She talks so much about her “deviant” behavior but most of the “illegal” or deviant” things that she does are just lame. Like going into her neighbor’s house when they aren’t home. Sure, technically it’s breaking and entering but all she did while she was in the house was sit in the living room and look at their belongings. She says she steals things all the time but it’s never anything of value. It’s stupid stuff like a lost necklace or a hair barrette. She claims she steals people’s cars in college. Which is not even technically true. She convinces drunk frat boys to give her their keys to go get snacks. The drunk frat boys agree with the hopes that she’ll sleep with them when she returns. She drives the cars around for awhile, gets the snacks, fills the gas tank and brings it back. Wow, so deviant!

In the end this book was about a rich white girl who didn’t want to be boring. So she decided to be edgy and not care about anyone. But she still has an excuse to be rude and mean to people sometimes, she’s a sociopath so of course she was mean! I have no idea how she thinks this book is going to help all the poor misunderstood sociopaths out there, the whole book is just Patric being a mean girl. How is that helping anyone? I gave up, it was boring and a waste of my time.

Progress Update Fridays – March 14, 2025

Pride’s Children: Netherworld by Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt

Progress: 52 of 540 pages

Check this book out at: Goodreads

How it’s going: I am thoroughly enjoying my journey back into this world so far. I will have to put this one down briefly as I have another one on my Nook that is about to expire, so have to jump other there for a minute and will be right back on this one.

The Bright Sword by Lev Grossman

Progress: 8 hours, 37 minutes of of 23 hours, 10 minutes

Check this book out at: Goodreads

How it’s going: This one started off really well. I liked Callum a lot and I was really interested in his journey. A young man who desperately wants to be a knight of the Round Table and arrives to find King Arthur dead and the Round Table in shambles. The first 3 hours were great. The last 8 have been utterly boring. I am contemplating giving up.

Sociopath: A Memoir by Patric Gagne

Progress: 32 of 368 pages

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How it’s going: The opening chapter of this book was so intensely chilling. On one hand I felt so sorry for this little girl, but on the other hand she can’t feel sorry for anyone so it’s little bit of an odd experience. I only have a few more days with this one so needed to jump in this week.

New Releases Wednesday – August 14, 2024

Dear Hanna by Zoje Stage

Published: August 13, 2024 by Thomas & Mercer

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Synopsis:

Hanna is no stranger to dark thoughts: as a young child, she tried to murder her own mother. But that was more than sixteen years ago. And extensive therapy—and writing letters to her younger brother—has since curbed those nasty tendencies.

Now twenty-four, Hanna is living an outwardly normal life of domestic content. Married to real estate agent Jacob, she’s also stepmother to his teenage daughter Joelle. They live in a beautiful home, and Hanna loves her career as a phlebotomist—a job perfectly suited to her occasional need to hurt people.

But when Joelle begins to change in ways that don’t suit Hanna’s purposes, her carefully planned existence threatens to come apart. With life slipping out of her control, Hanna reverts to old habits, determined to manipulate the events and people around her. And the only thing worse than a baby sociopath is a fully grown one.

With its dark humor and chillingly seductive protagonist, Dear Hanna is a stand-alone sequel sure to thrill returning and new readers alike.

Why this caught my eye:

The author’s name on this one caught my attention, I knew I recognized her. I read her other book a few years ago, Baby Teeth. If interested, my review on it is HERE. I remember enjoying the way the author writes and being really entertained by the book, even if it had flaws that affected how I rated it. Since Hanna was the only character I found sympathetic in Baby Teeth, I would love to see what Hanna is up to now. Like I said in my review of Baby Teeth, we all know how these books go. You know it, I know it. We’re reading to see how things fall apart.

Hum by Helen Phillips

Published: August 6, 2024 by Mary Sue Rucci Books

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Synopsis:

In a city addled by climate change and populated by intelligent robots called “hums,” May loses her job to artificial intelligence. In a desperate bid to resolve her family’s debt and secure their future for another few months, she becomes a guinea pig in an experiment that alters her face so it cannot be recognized by surveillance.

Seeking some reprieve from her recent hardships and from her family’s addiction to their devices, she splurges on passes that allow them three nights’ respite inside the Botanical Garden: a rare green refuge where forests, streams, and animals flourish. But her insistence that her son, daughter, and husband leave their devices at home proves far more fraught than she anticipated, and the lush beauty of the Botanical Garden is not the balm she hoped it would be. When her children come under threat, May is forced to put her trust in a hum of uncertain motives as she works to restore the life of her family.

Written in taut, urgent prose, Hum is a work of speculative fiction that unflinchingly explores marriage, motherhood, and selfhood in a world compromised by global warming and dizzying technological advancement, a world of both dystopian and utopian possibilities. 

Why this caught by eye:

I’m a fan of speculative fiction and science fiction. AI is the threat du jour at the moment and the media is all a flutter about the future of the technology. Admittedly it makes me a little bit nervous too, science fiction has an uncanny habit of predicting the future that I find disturbing. Anyway! This synopsis sounds really intriguing and I can’t wait to get it on my shelf.

Men Have Called Her Crazy by Anna Marie Tendler

Published: August 13, 2024 by Simon & Schuster

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Synopsis:

A powerful memoir that reckons with mental health as well as the insidious ways men impact the lives of women.

In early 2021, popular artist Anna Marie Tendler checked herself into a psychiatric hospital following a year of crippling anxiety, depression and self-harm. Over two weeks, she underwent myriad psychological tests, participated in numerous therapy sessions, connected with fellow patients and experienced profound breakthroughs, such as when a doctor noted, “There is a you inside that feels invisible to those looking at you from the outside.”

In Men Have Called Her Crazy, Tendler recounts her hospital experience as well as pivotal moments in her life that preceded and followed. As the title suggests, many of these moments are impacted by men: unrequited love in high school; the twenty-eight-year-old she lost her virginity to when she was sixteen; the frustrations and absurdities of dating in her mid-thirties; and her decision to freeze her eggs as all her friends were starting families.

This stunning literary self-portrait examines the unreasonable expectations and pressures women face in the 21st century. Yet overwhelming and despairing as that can feel, Tendler ultimately offers a message hope. Early in her stay in the hospital, she says, “My wish for myself is that one day I’ll reach a place where I can face hardship without trying to destroy myself.” By the end of the book, she fulfills that wish.

Why this caught my eye:

Historically mental heath has been turned into a weapon, used to take advantage of people and render them insignificant. Don’t listen to that person, they’re crazy! Oh, don’t bother so-and-so with that, they’re fragile and not well in the head! While this is true at scale it is particularly true of women. Mental health has often been used as a weapon against troublesome women. So the fact that this is the subject of this memoir was interesting to me. I am a bit familiar with the author’s art and had heard through the media grapevine about her mental health struggles. This seems like it will be an interesting and enlightening memoir.